Q: Hi, I have a problem. it takes me a long time, sometimes 30 minutes to ejaculate when I am having sex with my partner but I don’t have this problem when I am masturbating. is this normal? Is this serious? I went to see a psychiatrist and he gave me Fluoxetine but it wasn’t helpful either.

A: Hi. This is a common question. I am almost certain you have no serious issues to be worried about. If you only have this problem with you are having intercourse and can ejaculate when you are masturbating then it might be mostly related to your habits. You may be more familiar with orgasming by [...]

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Choices versus Chances

Sometimes in life you have to go with the flow but after a certain point it will become a choice to continue or not. It is very important not to miss that point or you will end up looking back with regret.

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Q: When I have orgasm, I feel this rush that turns into a headache. Is this part of the process, or is something wrong?

Well, in most cases it is normal and temporary and in some cases it is a sign that the person needs some medical investigations. During orgasm you usually have contractions all over your body that would cause temporary tension in your neck and head, this could be one of the causes for what you are [...]

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Q: My best friend just came out of the closet. This is new territory for me. How can I show my support?

Just be honest, don’t try to be over accommodating if you don’t feel like it or push away your feelings. Remember that this is your friend and you don’t want to have an elephant in the room every time you will meet each other again. Discuss your feelings with her/him honestly. Also remember that this [...]

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Q: Is their Anyway or Anything out there too make a man’s Private Grow longer & thicker w/t out going under the knife? l’ve tried some Enhancement Pills & Cream but the Pills seem too make me smaller. What can l do besides Beware of All these SCAMS & Not Wasting my $$$ thank you. Mr. S

Mr.S. thank you for your question. This is one of the top three questions that I receive. Here is the honest answer: there is a false perception regarding the length and girth of the penis out there mainly due to the porn representation of huge penises. but think of it this way, porn is there [...]

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Dating Tips

When you are trying to get to know someone, the answers you get are only as good as the questions you ask and the way you ask them. There is an art to this skill which you can master by knowing what you are looking for and being genuinely interested in the other person and [...]

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Q: I’m 25 and a virgin. What should I do to prepare for loosing my virginity?

I recommend that you first have a good look at your hymen and see if you have any left. You can do this by holding a mirror between your thighs and look or you can go to a gynaecologist for a brief exam. If you Google Hymen and then look at images it should give [...]

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