Having goals in life is different than having an organizer full of plans/booked schedules. Are your plans nurturing a goal in the future? or just filling up your time? Think of it this way, you need to know where you are headed so that you can plan accordingly, pick up appropriate tools and develop the skills you need. This is the difference between people who get what they want in life and the ones who are offered what was left behind by the first group.
I see many people who are looking for another person to shape their goals and dreams for them. Trust me this is a recipe for a life-time of dissatisfaction.
What if we were not going into relationships to get something out of it? What if we just went in to share our happiness, peace and success with that special one, and most importantly to grow.