Ignite Intimacy podcast with Laura Aiisha

I was recently on the Ignite Intimacy podcast with Laura Aiisha having a bright and playful conversation about pleasure, dating in the digital age, the power of language, orgasm, cultural differences in sex, dating and sexuality, your unpolished gut and more!

Catch the whole conversation on #iTunes, #Spotify, #Libsyn, #Stitcher or on the Ignite Intimacy website… all links are below 🙂

iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/ignite-intimacy/id1138178795

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5VSa7BzFrpZ7mQxdpUfBEl?si=keniDBr-SDyDWgZy4y0NDQ

Stitcher: https://buff.ly/2MkWb4B

Libsyn: http://igniteintimacy.libsyn.com

Ignite Intimacy website:  https://wp.me/p6Axei-Ko


FDA is to give approval on ‘Female Viagra’ in late August.


After being rejected twice, the “female viagra” (flibanserin) has resurfaced and this time it looks like it may be here to stay.

Is the drug effective?

The effect of flibanserin is described “modest.” In company studies, women taking flibanserin reported a slight increase in sexually satisfying events each month. Their answers to separate questionnaires indicated they experienced a slight increase in desire and a slight decrease in stress.

While FDA scientists describe these effects as “small,” they were significant enough to meet FDA effectiveness standards.

The FDA panelists acknowledged this week that flibanserin will not help all patients. The percentage of patients reporting positive results with flibanserin was only 10 to 15 percent higher than among patients taking a placebo. That suggests as few as 1 in 10 patients may actually benefit from the drug, according to some FDA advisers.

Overall, the drug got positive voting 18-6 vote in favor of approval to become the first medication indicated for premenopausal women with Hypoactive Sexual Desire Disorder (HSDD).

Read more about on New Haven Register Health


Can You Create “Sexual Chemistry” if it is not there?

When Whitney, approached me for an interview for her recent article on creating “sexual chemistry”, I was thinking  wouldn’t that be nice if someone could actually have a simple answer to this popular question?!

Here is her interesting piece trying to respond to this million dollar question… You’re on a date with a really great guy. He’s smart, sweet, funny, and just your type. You almost can’t believe how perfect he is…until you hook up. No butterflies, no goose bumps, nothing. You completely fall flat. This guy who’s so good on paper just can’t seem to fire you up in the bedroom……read the full article by Whitney C. Harris here.